7 years ago, I was alone in a dark tunnel with no way out. Sometimes, I wasn't even sure how I got there. I most assuredly, had no idea was was happening to me. I was otherwise known as going through a divorce. I now know that there is indeed (excuse the cliche) a light at the end of the tunnel.
For me, that light comes in the form of my son. And this blog is dedicated to him and my Ex (yes, my partner in this crime) for without we wouldn't be in this wondrous mess together aka co-parenting.
Why a blog about co-parenting?
Why not? Isn't there a blog about everything? Seriously, I've learned that co-parenting is very challenging under the best of circumstances. The best scenario would be that both parents amicably divorce and never, ever squabble over raising their child(ren) together. But the truth is that most parents fall somewhere in the spectrum of only caring about their own divorce and the former.
I've been searching for a blog or site where someone is sharing their own co-parenting experiences and advice on this challenging life situation. I've seen advice from all maner of non-profits on co-parenting, much of which is solid. I will feel free to tout some of their material.
I have yet to find co-parenting blogs that really address co-parenting issues: scheduling, visitation, different sets of rules at each home, different parenting styles, etc. I think it's time to freely talk about and express the challenges of co-parenting.
I would also like to show some courage while writing this blog. Courage to express my perspective on this roller coaster ride of an experience.Courage to not ever, ever write poorly of my Ex. Courage to rise above all of the BS of a divorce, bitter tastes in my mouth and to honor my son and his Father. Because we are all in this together, for one reason- the kid!
